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How long have you been together?
Has either of you said the word "divorce" out loud to each other in the last 6 months?
How would you rate the emotional presence you bring to the relationship?
Not presentFully present
When you and your wife get into a conflict, what do YOU typically do?
How consistent is intimacy (physical or emotional)?
Do jealousy or trust issues show up?
Have you tried couples counseling or therapy to fix this?
How urgent is fixing this marriage for you right now?
Not urgentExtremely urgent
What best describes your financial readiness to invest in fixing your marriage?
Finances & Provider Role
Quick check: does your money situation support fixing this, or constantly stress it?
What best describes your household income?
How is the financial load handled between you and your partner?
Communication & Connection
How you two talk, fight, and reconnect tells us where the real cracks are.
How would you best describe your current communication with your partner?
On a scale of 1-10, how emotionally connected do you feel as a couple day to day?
DisconnectedDeeply connected
How often do you two intentionally reconnect (date nights, 1:1 time, no phones)?
What does your partner complain about most in this relationship?
Coachability & Commitment
We can only help if you're ready to own your part and move.
On a scale of 1-10, how committed are you to fixing this marriage (not just talking about it)?
Not committedFully committed
When you get honest with yourself, what's been your biggest roadblock to changing this so far?
If we laid out a clear game plan that could save or rebuild this marriage, what would you most likely do?